Hey Guys My name is Tijime peter from Cardiblogger.com. Today I am going to show you the most effective way to ask a girl out to give yourself the best chance of success, and I’m even going to share my secret line for handling rejection like a boss. So even if things don’t go according to plan it does not get awkward.
Let’s begin alright! So the approach I’m going to share with you in this article it’s going to work regardless whether you’re trying to ask out a random girl. If you just met on the street or whether you’re trying to ask out a girl who you’ve known for a while, like a co-worker or something like that.
Anyway keep this article fun and engaging, I’m actually going to show these things for your kind of random girls in the streets.
- Always state your intentions when you’re asking her out
What I mean by this is to make it clear that you’re asking her out on a romantic date. You’re not just trying to hang out with her as friends and yes I know this is going to increase your rate of rejection. It’s going to make it more intimidating to ask her out but think about it this way; imagine you don’t do this and she says yes and then all of a sudden you’re on a date with her early. So you think you’re on a date with her but she just thinks you guys are out at dinner together being friends.
You don’t want to be in that situation that fucking sucks, and that’s how you fall into the friend zone so the easiest way to avoid this is just to tell her that you think she’s cute, when you ask her out.
I got rejected by a girl I loved early this year, she said she had a boyfriend but you know it was obvious to her why I wanted to hang out so at least now I know that she’s not down to hang out with me anyway. I had to relocate!
- Be direct when you ask the girl out
You want to ask her straight up do you want to hang out sometime, or even be more specific than that and say “you want to grab drinks sometime or something like that”. Because when you do this then you know you guys are on the same page and that she has the full intention of meeting up with you and then from that point just a matter of scheduling it and figuring out the logistics. The mistake most guys make here is that they ask the girl oh are you free tonight or what are you doing this weekend? and they sort of beat around the bush.
- Embrace rejection
The final tip I have for you is to embrace rejection. Think about it like this you’re never going to regret asking a girl out and getting rejected, because at least now you know that she’s not into you but you are going to regret it if you don’t ask her out. You’re going to be yourself up about it you’re going to be wondering you know. What if I just manned up and asked her out? But you have to prepare yourself to handle rejection.
If you do get rejected, just be like hey that’s alright just take it as a compliment because now she’s not going to think you’re butt hurt. She’s not going to feel bad for you and in the future if you run into her again you can still chat her up casually and it’s not going to be awkward at all. You don’t have to be perfect, you don’t have to be super confident if you just face rejection sometimes that alone is enough.
Anyway those are three tips you can use to ask your lab and give yourself the best possible chance of success and right now if you’re a guy who struggles to face rejection then good news I am ready to help you via firstname.lastname@example.org.
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